Doctor Patient relationship: a Chasm?

The relationship between doctors and their patients has undergone a sea change in India . Gone are the days of paternalism, when doctors ordered and the patients listened. But in today's consumer driven market place, this no longer holds good. However such concerns are not just Indian. Similar concerns consume American doctors as well.
I am reproducing an opinion by an American anesthesiologist Shirie Leng , . Originally from the KevinMD, this post examines one reason for the gulf that has appeared in the trust between doctors and patients.

"The subject matter has hit a nerve.  The first post was about how we use and misuse numbers in medicine, and the second made the case that patients are not customers in the retail sense.

The opinions in both cases were pretty much split between people who agreed with me wholeheartedly and those who thought me the most misguided idiot doctor ever to approach a keyboard. Why these subjects?  Why are issues of buying, selling, ratings and statistics in health care so polarizing?  In general commerce, whole industries have grown up around the insatiable need for ratings and deals.  People buy stuff on Amazon based on how many stars it has and how big the discount is.  Why is medicine different?

Maybe it is not different.  There are plenty of people who think health care should be cast into the competitive marketplace and allowed to sink or swim based on quality indicators and pricing.  Doctor rating websites and magazine hospital rankings provide plenty of opinions and statistics about a vast array of measurements of quality.  Recent pushes towards pricing transparency would allow direct comparisons on the price of procedures, tests, and devices.  A health care consumer can theoretically pick a doctor based on a star rating and haggle him or her down on the price of a knee replacement or echocardiogram.  But is that what we want?  To approach our health needs like buying a car or shopping for appliances?

Say you decide to buy a new dishwasher.  First you have to determine that you need a new one, that is, you have to diagnose your problem — “sick dishwasher, terminal condition.”  So you go online to Amazon or Consumer Reports to see which dishwashers get the best ratings.  You notice that the consumer reviews are all over the place.  People either love or hate any given model.  In fact, there are very few middle-of-the-road opinions.  You decide to buy the one with the highest star rating without really knowing or caring that the rating is just a statistical result of positives vs. negatives from consumers who may or may not be anything like you.  You go to Best Buy or Sears to buy the dishwasher you’ve chosen.  The salesperson you deal with wants you to buy a more expensive unit.  The salesperson doesn’t care if you can’t afford it, or if your house is too small, or if the unit is really the best one for your situation, or whether you really need a new dishwasher in the first place.  His job is to get the most money out of you.  Your job is to get the best deal out of him.  Neither of you is at all concerned about the best interests of the other.  Neither of you is looking for a human relationship.  The only thing between you is money.

And that is where the polarization comes from: money.  A wise man once said (OK, the best man at my wedding, but he is super wise), “All marital conflict is about money.”  All commerce is about the money, and since health care is a commodity, bought and sold on a marginally open market, health care is all about the money.

The relationship between doctor and patient has become all about the money as well.  The minute a patient walks into the doctor’s office money is on the table in the form of a co-pay and a request for health insurance information. Resentment around doctor’s salaries blinds people to the administrators and pharmaceutical companies who are pulling in many magnitudes more than your average primary care doctor.  High profile stories of doctors with financial ties to various organizations erode trust.

Many people don’t realize it, but medical students are taught virtually nothing about money.  It never comes up.  Students are too busy learning how to take care of people, the professionalism and ethics surrounding their chosen field, and how to pass all three parts of the U.S. Medical Licensing Examination.  Most graduating doctors know very little about billing and virtually nothing about costs.  You know what graduates know a lot about that sort of thing?  Business school grads.

Money comes between husbands and wives, doctors and patients, buyers and sellers.  Anything that comes between the doctor and the patient sitting in front of him or her separates two human beings and disrupts the relationship upon which we build trust in each other."